Fortunately for us, there are no style points in road rallies.

Last month, Deb and I were invited to join the Faith Builders adult fellowship group (AFG) on its annual road rally. As nonmember guests, we decided the only way to show our humble appreciation was to decisively cream the competition.

OK, “cream” might be an exaggeration. And it’s true that as two of six people in our car, we were just one-third of the team. And I suppose the fact that Deb and I may not have technically solved any of the riddles does take away from our winning legacy.

And yet we like to think that each member of our team, which included Dave and Diana Brown and Terry and Karen Sykes, contributed according to our unique gifts.

From the front seats, Terry and Dave deftly handled the driving duties and sprinted to collect the answers to the road rally clues. They even had time to pose for photos.

From the back seats, Karen and Diana brilliantly deciphered anagrams and word puzzles, adding valuable points for our team.

From the middle seats, Deb and I …well, we had great intentions of using our gifts to help the team, but those crazy child-proof locks proved too much to overcome. According to Terry, the locks were “broken”.

Despite being locked in the SUV, we did provide helpful insights to our team, like these driving tips.

Terry: Which way should I turn?
Tim: Go left to M-59.
Terry: M-59 is to the right.
Tim: Exactly!

While I provided flawless navigation, Deb worked feverishly on a Bible crossword puzzle, right up until she turned green from car sickness. For the last half hour, Deb valiantly stuck her head out the window in a selfless attempt to avoid upchucking into our road rally envelope. Now that’s putting the team first.

We may not have been the flashiest team, but we did manage to finish the race without injuring ourselves or requiring a police escort. Fortunately for us, there are no style points in road rallies.

As we reflect on the race, we are convinced this victory was truly momentous. We expect ESPN to show up with a film crew any day. There are even rumors of a reality show.

I must mention that organizers Lisa Rife, Idy Kiser and Joy Sykes did a marvelous job of planning. Unlike other road rallies, this one was low on torture and high on fun. After embarrassing ourselves in a public park, ice cream parlor and garden center, we appropriately returned to a feast of Alibi pizza and awesome desserts.

Perhaps you are wondering about the spoils of our victory. Each team member received a stunning championship trophy. I am planning to build a trophy case one day to showcase mine, but for now I’ll use an empty jelly jar.

Every trophy deserves its own case

In addition to the trophies, we will receive sweatshirts with the Woodside logo, complements of Faith Builders AFG teacher John Sykes, who owns a sports apparel business. I’ve wanted a Woodside shirt for years but was too cheap to buy one. Thanks to John’s generosity, I’ll finally sport the Woodside colors.

Now that we’ve cleaned up with the Faith Builders class, Deb and I – and possibly the rest of our team if we can convince them – will be visiting all of Woodside’s AFG s.

We’ll be in touch soon to find out the dates for your parties, potlucks, and special events…especially if prizes are involved.

“Getting a little hot for ya, Timmy?” one of the Yuppers roared.

After decades of desperate avoidance, I recently found the courage to enter a steam room. Upon initial glance, the little room appeared inviting and harmless.

I peered through the moist fog and made out a tiered bench. I cautiously took a seat and studied the room.

“There is nothing to fear,” I told myself.

Instantly a valve opened and molten steam saturated the room. While sweat oozed from my body like a squeezed sponge, adolescent memories of my first sauna experience filled my brain.

The traumatic flashback transported me to Michigan’s Upper Peninsula. My family traveled there in the 1960s and 1970s to visit relatives and experience the great outdoors, as much as a bunch of sheltered suburbanites can.

My dad had rented a cabin on a lake. Next to the dock was an odd little building with a chimney. Inside, I was told, was a Finish sauna. I didn’t know what a Finish sauna was, but I couldn’t wait to try it out.

“Tomorrow night the men are coming and we’ll use the sauna,” my Dad told me.

As an 11-year old boy, I felt a sudden rush of manhood come over me. I was going to join “the men” for a guy’s activity.

The next night our cabin was the site of a big cookout. My relatives and their friends were a hardy bunch of second-generation Italian and Finish Americans. They loved their pasties, roasts and brook trout. We ate until we were stuffed.

Soon the men gathered. Their voices deepened, stories were shared, and bragging ensued. We headed for the sauna.

I gamely followed the burly crew. Most were seasoned ore miners who cut their own firewood and put many a meal on the table by hunting and fishing.

I was joining manly men in a manly activity. My heart pounded with pride.

We entered the sauna and my eyes locked on the wood-fired heater with rocks on top and a bucket and ladle nearby. The fire had been building for hours and already the room was hot.

I looked up and noticed the men sitting on the top bench. They wore sly smiles and asked me to pour water on the rocks.

As the youngest “man” in the group, I was honored and starting dumping water on the rocks. Steam erupted and quickly filled the room. I tossed on more water and joined the men on the top bench.

And why not? I was one of them now.

Moments later, my skin started stinging. I looked around and the men were joking and didn’t seem to notice the room was severely OVERHEATING.

I slipped down to the middle bench.

Someone asked for more water. While my brain knew this was a really bad idea, my new-found pride forced me to splash a half-ladle onto the rocks.

“Come on, dump the bucket on the rocks,” another man challenged. “Let’s get some real heat going.”

I gulped and dumped the bucket. Steam exploded from the rocks. I winced and took a seat on the lowest level, alone.

“Getting a little hot for ya, Timmy?” one of the Yuppers roared.

“Yeah,” I said sheepishly. “I feel like I’m burning up.”

That made all the men laugh and one suggested I throw more water on the rocks.

Suddenly, I noticed my throat was searing hot. No, wait, it was on fire.

“I can’t breathe,” I shouted, and ran out of the sauna. A chorus of boisterous guffaws followed me out the door.

Suffice to say the Finish sauna turned out not to be my right of passage to manhood. I spent the rest of our vacation dodging trash talk from my uncles. I vowed to never again let a hot room get the best of me.

Fast forward forty years. Now, I enter the steam room with something to prove. I am prepared to beat the heat and outlast the heartiest dudes.

I sit confidently on the top bench directly in front of the steam valve. As heat fills the room, I sit tall and soak it up. I look slyly to my left and right and make absolutely certain I am the last guy to leave.

Yes, my skin is burning and my throat is on fire. But it’s OK. I’m finally one of “the men”.

(Author’s note: While fact checking this column, I realized there is a small possibility my Finish sauna experience took place after age 11, but definitely before I age 18. I’m sticking with 11).

Only three players try to score in the wrong basket this week, so there is measurable progress.

Upward Basketball just concluded another season. If you have yet to view an Upward game, you are missing a rich experience. The season is eight weeks of raucous fun where kids learn basketball, sportsmanship, and the Bible.

My perspective is that of a referee for first and second graders. The little guys and gals are a hoot. Each week these beginning ballers make me laugh, blow my whistle in a fruitless effort to restore order, and occasionally cry (more on that later).

In the spirit of Sports Center, I’d like to share my favorite highlights from Upward’s 2010 season.

Week 1. Teams resemble armies of confused ants swarming a discarded grape, trying to push it into their respective anthills. The little ants clearly hear their ant coaches, who are furiously shouting instructions, but can’t process the information. Mostly, they keep dropping the grape. I call 21 traveling infractions and 19 double dribbles.

Week 2. The second week’s games are painful slow-motion replays of week one. Players are only slightly less stunned-looking. Coaches are wondering if God is punishing them. It is 8 a.m. and the stands are populated with a mixture of unshaven dads and coffee-deprived moms. Only three players try to score in the wrong basket this week, so there is measurable progress.

Week 3. I referee two girls’ games and am shocked at how disciplined they are compared with the boys. They can dribble and actually pass the ball to each other. A few even score. The games resemble real basketball. The girls’ parents are enjoying themselves, slapping high-fives, and proudly pointing out their offspring. At the boys’ court, parents are slumped in their seats, secretly hoping their neighbors are not watching.

Week 4. I get the girls again and I’m thrilled because they commit few fouls. At this age, the girls are polite and avoid contact. I love refereeing this age group because I’ve seen fifth grade girls play and, frankly, they terrify me.

Week 5. The other refs claim the girls’ games, so I brace myself for a ton of whistle-blowing. But amazingly, the boys have transformed. Nearly all can now dribble the ball, and they only take a few extra steps. Most have figured out they have to be within 10 feet of the basket before shooting their air balls. I look deep into the eyes of their parents and see the glimmer of hope.

Week 6. The boys have improved so much that the Upward Cheerleaders can now generate real smiles from parents, instead of the painful grimaces displayed during the early weeks. Parents excitedly record over the first few games on their camcorders.

Week 7. I referee a game featuring a team of semi-pro second-grade boys. The game starts with the semi-pros setting picks, fast-breaking, and calling out plays. Despite having some talent, the other team doesn’t know what hit them. I am shocked by the improvement since week one. Their parents are surfing the Web looking for college scholarships.

Week 8. Each year there is a special moment when the smallest, scrawniest kids score their first basket. Sometimes the coaches even lift them up so they can score. However it happens, it always brings tears to my eyes. The kids thrust an arm into the air, their teammates cheer, and their family celebrates. It’s a scene you rarely see in competitive leagues, but it happens all the time in Upward.

For many kids, this is their gold medal moment. Now excuse me. I seem to have any something stuck in my eye.

The average Floridian is now 137 years old. And most of them are still driving.

I recently traveled to Orlando for business. As a chalky faced, sun-starved Michigander, I desperately craved time in “The Sunshine State”, so I tacked on a couple vacation days.

In contrast to Michigan’s 47 seconds of winter sunshine, Florida lived up to its slogan. Being outdoors was like getting a B-12 shot from the sky.

However, to honor the principle of truth in advertising, I submit that Florida needs to add a second slogan: “The Old Timer State”.

Please understand that I love elderly people. In fact, I’m well on my way to becoming one. Or at least I thought I was.

The problem is that people are living incredibly long. The average Floridian is now 137 years old. And most of them are still driving.

OK, that might be a slight exaggeration. But when an 85-year-old is the youngster in the neighborhood, it can’t be long before Florida exiles anyone without an AARP card.

Take my Grandma Siami. In 1970, she and my Grandpa Clayton moved to the retirement community of Rainbow Lakes Estates in the north Florida town of Dunnellon.

My Granddad followed the normal retirement plan pretty well, enjoying nearly two decades of easy living.

But Grandma didn’t get the memo. She’s now 98 years old and has lived in the same “retirement” house for 40 years. She’s survived cancer, angina, high blood pressure, and a host of ailments that would have done me in.

Last year she broke her arm. She fell at 5:30 in the morning while retrieving her morning newspaper from the bottom of the driveway. Unfortunately, this means she’ll probably lose her slot pitching for the church fast-pitch softball league.

My Grandma is among millions of retirees in Florida redefining the actuarial tables. If you consult a financial planner, he’ll tell you to save as though you’ll live to be 100.

Fantastic. I can hardly wait to retire…when I reach 90.

I also learned there is a unique senior subculture in Florida while dining out with my Grandma. As we were deciding what to order, the waitress (let’s call her Marge) sprang into action. Right next to our table, Marge planted a “large print” menu highlighting the specials of the day.

Brilliant. I wish we had those in every restaurant.

When my Grandmother was still unsure, Marge showed her savvy. She started speaking in a voice that was both soothing and clear. After narrowing down the options, Marge said the magic phrase, “And how about a sweet potato?”

Bingo. Grandma got a big smile, said “oh yes” and dinner was served.

As you might have guessed, I’m in awe of her endurance, resiliency and faith. Rock on, Grandma.

Driving to see Grandma, and virtually anywhere in Florida, requires super human patience. The good news is it’s virtually impossible to get a speeding ticket because everyone drives under the speed limit…in every lane.

And you can’t even get mad about it. If you finally do get around slow drivers, you look over and see someone who looks like your Grandma, or some sweet old guy happy as a clam going 20 mph in a 35 mph zone.

You can’t honk at Grandma or the sweet old guy, even when they cut you off. Fortunately, they drift into your lane in slow motion so it’s pretty easy to avoid impact.

By the time I left Florida, I adjusted to a calmer pace. I was driving patiently, walking slowly, and taking time to enjoy the scenery.

I think I will do just fine as an old timer…in just 39 more years.

The makers of Spandex send you a cease-and-desist order.

My New Year’s resolutions are easy to remember because they are the exact ones I set last year…and for the last two decades.

The problem is my resolutions haven’t been all that resolute. In fact, some might define them as resolve-free. They seem to follow a similar pattern.

Jan. 1, 2009: This year I’m going to eat better, exercise more, and shed a few pounds. I am completely passionate, iron-willed and ferociously dedicated. I will attack with a vengeance, starting tomorrow.

Jan. 2: Today I made great strides by posting my resolutions on Facebook so everyone can hold me accountable, starting tomorrow.

Jan. 3: I deleted my resolutions from Facebook because they could be misinterpreted as bragging. Instead, I’ll blog as I achieve them, starting tomorrow.

Jan. 4: Unbelievable. I get a sore throat just when I was ready to start on my resolutions.

Jan. 1, 2010: This year, I’m going to eat better, exercise more, and shed a few pounds.

Hopefully, you are enjoying great success with your fitness resolutions. But if you are unsure, here are 20 signs to tell if you are failing miserably.

*All the personal trainers shout “dibs” when you enter the health club.

*The readout on your StairMaster keeps flashing the word “weenie”.

*The makers of Spandex send you a cease-and-desist order.

*The guys in the weight lifting area keep asking if you were sick as a child.

*You skinned your knees…while running on the treadmill. (Yes, that was me you saw falling at LifeTime Fitness…twice. Don’t ask.)

*When you swim laps, the lifeguard from the family pool keeps jumping in to rescue you.

*While recording the stats for your body mass index, your trainer says, “Well that’s a first.”

*You hear audible groans every time you walk by a scale.

*Six months into your club membership, the entry clerk still hands you the first-time visitor application form.

*You stop at Dunkin Doughnuts five times a week to “carb up”, but manage to actually exercise just once.

*The Dairy Queen staff welcomes you by name.

*You see a very scary picture of yourself posted at local fast-food restaurants.

*Your nutritionist performs an intervention.

*During your annual physical, your doctor gathers the entire staff to discuss your cholesterol. They all listen intently until one nurse shouts, “I win the pool!”

*You get a sympathy card signed by everyone in your fitness class.

*Your personal trainers keep getting fired for poor performance.

*Your health club invoice shows you spent more on smoothies than on dues.

*Your Dancercise instructor asks you to take the class online because you are scaring the other students.

*When showing your children your high school yearbook photo, they ask, “Who’s that?”

*Your treadmill freakishly phones 911 whenever you use the heart monitor.

Hopefully, you are not experiencing any of these failure signs. But if you are, don’t despair. There are only 11 more months until 2011.

I was hoping I misunderstood the voice. Maybe it actually said, “Don’t buy the pie”.

A few weeks ago during a Get Real program, Woodside celebrated the triumphant conclusion of our first “Biggest Loser” contest. I attended the program in order to cheer on the participants for their incredible weight-loss and fitness-building efforts.

I didn’t anticipate leaving with a challenge of my own.

Apparently, in addition to exercise, contestants were asked to eat “healthy” foods.

While I completely enjoyed the stories of biking, walking and calisthenics, all the talk about eating right was eating at me.

So during the Q&A time, I posed a simple question. Is it really so bad to indulge in an entire box of Cheez-Its every so often, like twice a week?

I was sure the fitness leaders would cut me some slack.

They didn’t.

In fact, their words were cutting: “If God didn’t create it, why would you want to eat it?”

Try as I might, I couldn’t think of a snappy comeback. “Because it tastes cheesy good” seemed a bit lame.

So as the fitness gurus talked up the benefits of almonds, fruits and vegetables, I debated the ugly truth. My name is Tim and I am a Cheez-It junkie.

For years, my motto has been, “I run to eat”. In my warped world, running a few miles gave me a free pass to eat as much junk as I could consume. I was convinced exercise would counteract all the mountains of Cheez-Its, gallons of soda, and tons of Twizzlers I ate.

But after the Biggest Loser program, I heard a voice whispering inside my head, “Don’t buy the lie.”

I was hoping I misunderstood the voice. Maybe it actually said, “Don’t buy the pie”. Actually, that’s just as bad because I love pie too.

Either way, I was convinced I could exercise my way to good health and still eat junk. It was simple physics. To prove my point, I would run a few miles and measure the results.

After locating our severely neglected treadmill, I removed a thick layer of dust and started running. Five miles and 45 minutes later, I hit the stop button.

Yes sir. No doubt this run had burned thousands of calories. Justification was at hand.

But the calorie counter told a different story. Unbelievably, the run had burned a measly 500 calories.

OK, all was not lost. Maybe I had overestimated the calorie-burning impact of exercise, but I was confident it was enough to justify my Cheez-It habit. I could probably chow down an entire box, maybe two, for each run.

But according to the nutrition facts provided by dietfacts.com, 13 big Cheez-It crackers pack on 150 calories. So that means a five-mile run would allow me eat a total of …43 crackers.

Just 43 stinking crackers? That’s like a warm up snack for my main course of Cheez-Its.

The whisper inside my head suddenly turned into a shout. It was time to confront my compulsion.

So here it is. In 2010, I pledge to:

*Just say no to those wonderful cheese snacks for an entire year.

*Sell my Kellogg’s stock because Cheez-It sales are about to plummet.

*Buy more pie. Hey, it’s OK. They’re filled with fruit.

For some reason, moisture always leaks from my eye sockets at the climax of this film. I suspect some type of allergy.

My favorite Charlie Brown cartoon character is Linus van Pelt, the soft-spoken, thumb-sucking, blanket-clutching brother of tyrannical Lucy.

I only wish cartoonist Charles Schultz would have introduced us to their parents. This van Pelt family would have been a hoot. I would tune in every week to watch their reality show.

I’m a Linus fan because of one scene in the A Charlie Brown Christmas. Leading up to the scene, Charlie is mocked mercilessly by the other characters after bringing home a pathetic Christmas tree. Linus sets the gang straight by focusing on the true meaning of Christmas.

In a monologue that surely must anger the politically correct (PC) cops, little Linus shares the Christmas story simply and beautifully, quoting directly from the Bible. He boldly states that the Savior was born.

Take that, PC police. You don’t mess with Linus.

Other Christmas classics take a different route. Miracle on 34th Street, Frosty the Snowman, Rudolf the Red-Nosed Reindeer, A Christmas Carol (Scrooge) and How the Grinch Stole Christmas, all tell the story of outcasts and losers, scorned by their communities for a multitude of perceived sins.

In each case, the lead character eventually is redeemed and shockingly, Christmas is saved. These stories are classics because man’s redemption is the most compelling story ever told.

Where have we heard that before? We know where the writers got their inspiration, but for some reason Jesus is omitted from the credits. The PC crowd must be elated.

While these Christmas stories forget to credit God, the film It’s a Wonderful Life does better. Jimmy Stewart plays George Bailey, the hard-lucked everyman who allows the needs of others to derail his own dreams of travel and adventure.

George hits rock bottom when the Bailey Building and Loan deposits go missing and he takes the blame for someone else. In his darkest hour, he becomes suicidal. His wife and family pray on his behalf.

Fortunately, an angel is dispatched from heaven to help George realize the value his life holds. Broken and confused, George prays and asks for help. Renewed, he joins his family and friends for an inspired Christmas celebration.

For some reason, moisture always leaks from my eye sockets at the climax of this film. I suspect some type of allergy.

OK, I admit it. I get emotional thinking about George’s redemption. And while this film falls a bit short by not referencing Jesus, heaven, angels, and prayer are central to the plot. I’m guessing the PC crowd fast-forwards through these scenes.

In the days leading up to Christmas, our PC culture will saturate us with messages that say giving cool presents is what it’s all about. Store clerks will be mandated to say “happy holidays” instead of “Merry Christmas”.

In response, I plan to get my “Linus” on. How about you?

There is a good reason why God put certain body parts on the inside. They are not designed to see the light of day, much less pose for glamour shots.

I spend much of my free time trying hard not to act like an adult. But I have a valid reason. As a male, I am genetically designed to avoid responsible acts like bed making, bathroom cleaning and especially preventive healthcare.

That’s why I’m proud to have completed my first full physical. Seeing a doctor when I wasn’t even sick represented a breakthrough in responsible behavior. So clearly, this was Deb’s idea.

Getting a physical when you turn 50 is something of a right of passage. Those of you who have traveled this road before me know exactly what I’m talking about. The rest of you need to visit my physician, Dr. Strangeglove.

Personally, I’m not a big fan of medical offices. The white uniforms, stainless steel, and sterile instruments give me the creeps. And those anatomy posters traumatize you into submitting to any crazy test your doctor might order.

Tim: “Doc, I felt great when I arrived. But after spending 45 minutes in this holding cell with these posters showing clogged arteries, rotting livers, and alien growths, I am absolutely certain I have at least five diseases.”

Doctor: “Excellent.”

This is why men won’t go to the doctor. We prefer to live in peaceful ignorance.

If doctors were truly serious about getting guys to visit them, their offices would look like “man caves”. The walls would be plastered with sports memorabilia and flat screen TVs showing ESPN. And there would definitely be a cooler stuffed with free drinks.

Most of my tests were pretty simple, but one unnamed procedure produced a heavy dose of fear and loathing. Let’s just say it took a lot of intestinal fortitude on my part.

This procedure required me to fast for about 15 hours. But I had a brilliant strategy to help me ignore the hunger pangs. I took a long bike ride to Metro Beach.

That turned out to be a really stupid idea because there were at least 2 million people barbequing every food known to man. The incredibly alluring aroma of grilled steak, pork chops, and chicken tortured me.

My fast went really slow.

Next, I was required to drink 64 ounces of Gatorade and two powerful products found only in the pharmacy.

With my stomach pretty sour from the bike ride, gulping this fluid was akin to a snake swallowing a watermelon. I thought for sure I was going to burst.

Fortunately, the concoction turned out to be incredibly effective. In fact, the next time we have a clogged drain, I’m skipping the plumbing department and heading straight for the pharmacy.

It occurred to me this concoction was so potent it could put an end to war as we know it. Instead of spending billions on military equipment, we could just pump a few thousand gallons of this stuff into an adversary’s water supply. They’d be rendered totally useless in a few hours. Not-so-sweet victory would be ours.

My favorite part of the procedure was the anesthesia, which worked wonderfully. If only doctors could prescribe it for home use. Wait, someone tried that recently and it didn’t work out too well.

My least favorite part of the process was the photos. That’s right. After the procedure is complete the doctor presents your guest driver (Deb again) with some lovely images as a take-home gift.

This was just wrong.

There is a good reason why God put certain body parts on the inside. They are not designed to see the light of day, much less pose for glamour shots.

Fortunately, my results were good so I don’t have to repeat this test for 10 years. I can’t wait.

Welcome to the New Voice Media Website.   We’re excited to present you with bios, photos and links to our featured artists, Jessa Anderson and Jordan Anderson.  To sample their music, check out their MySpace sites by clicking on the artist links.

Also, you can now find information here on author Tim Fausch, whose book has just been published.

BREAKING NEWS: Just published:  The Great Cheese Sandwich War: Thirty Humorous Devotional Stories and One (Really) Inspiring One. It’s been a year in the making, and the book is now printed and available, with proceeds going to Extreme Response.

The book is a compilation of 30 humor stories originally written for The Woodside News, a great church newspaper serving Woodside Bible Church in Michigan.  After some editing and the addition of reflective thoughts to each story, plus an intriguing story about what’s happening in South Africa, they became this new book.

You can purchase this 188-page book on this site, via Amazon.com, BarnesandNoble.com, Borders.com, Books-a-million.com, Powellsbooks.com and Christianbook.com.  Or purchase it directly from Tim by emailing him at tfausch@wowway.com.  The cost is $13.99, plus $3 for tax and postage, $16.99. total. Turnaround is 2 weeks or less.

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Billy Boombox in the car behind me just dialed his car stereo to “atomic blast” decibel level. Isn’t that nice of him to share his music. I hope his speakers explode.

All I want to do at the end of the workday is get in my car and enjoy a fast and incident-free drive home. But apparently, everyone is conspiring against me.

Here’s how my 10-mile commute looks on most days.

5:01 p.m. Leaving work and attempting to turn on Big Beaver Road. Why isn’t that Jeep ahead of me turning? Come on, you can do it. There’s an opening the size of the federal deficit. Turn! You missed it. There’s another opening. You missed it again. Arggggh. Finally you turn. Unbelievable. That took forever.

5:02 p.m. OK, it was only a minute, but it seemed much longer. Accelerating to 40 mph for one-tenth of a mile and slam on brakes. Gridlock. What is wrong with these people? Don’t they have anywhere else to be? There’s that Jeep again. The clueless driver is soaking up sunshine, acting as though he’s not stuck in this horrific traffic jam. He’s talking on a cell phone. No wonder he missed those openings.

5:04 p.m. Snails are passing me. Time to employ my first shortcut. I’ll cut through the Marriott parking lot onto Livernois. Just need this work truck to turn first. Please turn. Finally. Could you turn any slower?

5:08 p.m. Heading north on Livernois. How did that stinking cell phone showoff in the Jeep get ahead of me? As soon as traffic clears I’ll pass it, but both lanes are clogged with drivers doing 37 mph. Hello? The speed limit is 40 mph people. Can you pick it up a bit?

5:12 p.m. Turning east on Long Lake. The Jeep went straight, a fatal error. For shortcut number two, I’ll cut through the subdivision onto Rochester Road. Why is this do-gooder in front of me driving 25 mph? I know that’s the speed limit, but everyone fudges a little. Unbelievable. What’s that ahead, a speed trap? Thank goodness I was obeying the law.

5:14 p.m. Almost to Rochester. Is that a school bus? Please don’t stop. You stopped. That’s right, go ahead and put on the flashing lights and make everyone freeze. Just because you’re delivering dozens of children home safely you think you’re so important. Please take your time.

5:19 p.m. Going north on Rochester. Need to be in right lane to go east on Square Lake. Driver in front of me is turning. Are you really slowing down to 5 mph to turn? Who are you, Grandma Moses? I can’t see you behind the head cushion. I’ll catch up and give you “the look”. Oops, you are a grandma, maybe a great grandma. My apologies. Sorry for honking.

5:23 p.m. Turning north on John R. Yikes, gridlock. I’m trapped. Why is my car vibrating? Oh. Billy Boombox in the car behind me just dialed his car stereo to “atomic blast” decibel level. Isn’t that nice of him to share his music. I hope his speakers explode.

5:28 p.m. Inching forward painfully. If I can just make it another 10 feet I can scoot around these tortoises and take shortcut number three. But the oblivious driver ahead of me won’t pull forward. Wait, he’s holding an iPhone. That dude is texting. Outrageous. I have half a mind to grab my Blackberry and email the department of transportation.

5:35 p.m. Going east on Auburn. Home stretch. Is that the stinking Jeep way ahead of me? I don’t get it. Obviously, I need to add more shortcuts to my commute.

5:40 p.m. Pulling on to my street. Incoming call. Hi honey. Sorry I forgot to call about dinner. What? I need to go back to Alibi and pick up dinner? Arggggh.